Buying my parents house - talk to me like I’m an idiot

I’m totally new to this whole home buying thing, and I’m hoping someone can break it down for me clearly. I’d like to buy my mom’s house, which is worth around $400k. There’s no mortgage on it, but it does need some repairs, though they’re fairly minimal. This seems like the best option for me to become a homeowner, and I really like the house and the area. My question isn’t if I should buy it, but how to go about it. I initially thought I’d just buy her house like any other house, putting a percentage down and taking out a mortgage. But I’ve heard there are ways around this, like putting her house in a trust instead? I’ve searched in this forum but I still don’t fully understand the answers, and the cases are specific enough that I’m not sure they apply to me. I’d really love to know what a smart way to handle this might be. I prefer not to make monthly payments to my mom since I’d like for her to take the full amount and invest it wisely. My goal is to build a small addition for her to move into in a few years, which has already been estimated at about $150k. That price may change in about two years, but before she moves into the addition, she’ll be renting nearby while she pursues a degree, so she won’t be homeless. Any advice would be super appreciated.

Okay, so the best way to do this is with a conventional loan using a gift of equity. First, decide how much you want your mom to net after the sale. Let’s say $300k. She would sell the house to you for $410k and give you a $100k gift of equity, plus she would cover closing costs of $10k.

@Axelle
Thanks for breaking that down. So I wouldn’t need any money upfront?

Ben said:
@Axelle
Thanks for breaking that down. So I wouldn’t need any money upfront?

Exactly! The gift of equity would cover your down payment, and you’d get a loan for $300k, which would all go to your mom.

What state are you in? If you’re in California, it might be better for your mom to put the property in a trust and have you rent from her until she passes. That way, you avoid a big tax hit.

Hollis said:
What state are you in? If you’re in California, it might be better for your mom to put the property in a trust and have you rent from her until she passes. That way, you avoid a big tax hit.

I’m in Massachusetts. If I rent from her, she’d get monthly payments, which I’d prefer to avoid since I want her to have the full amount upfront.

Also, think about MassHealth benefits if your mom is elderly. Both options have implications for her benefits.

Definitely get a real estate lawyer to help. You do not need to pay a realtor in your case.

Shay said:
Definitely get a real estate lawyer to help. You do not need to pay a realtor in your case.

That’s super helpful! I wouldn’t have thought about that.

If she puts the house in a trust, it can help with inheritance issues and taxes. Why do you need to give her a lump sum?

StarlitMyst said:
If she puts the house in a trust, it can help with inheritance issues and taxes. Why do you need to give her a lump sum?

I just want her to have the cash upfront, but I don’t fully understand the tax implications of that.

@Ben
If she puts it in a living trust, you can inherit it without a huge tax hit, and you’ll be paying property taxes based on her original purchase price instead of the new value.